It is easy to get upset (with people) when things don't go your way. And more often than not, your reasons for getting pissed off/hurt are justifiable to you. But same holds for the other side as well!
If you think a bit deeper, the your justification does not stem from what is 'logically' right from an 'unbiased' perspective. Your sense of fairness stems from your Ego, your Desires and your Aversions in life. And I am not asking you to buy this. Take it with a pinch of salt. But Think. And if this rings a bell, then try to observe it at the back of your mind while you go through the daily, mundane motions in life. Peek inside your mind once in a while. Ask yourself why do you find yourself in The SAME fucked up/angry/hurt/sad place over and over again?
1. Is it that someone else is to blame for your troubles?
2. Or is it that YOU are the cause of your miseries ALL the time?
Know, and control your mind. That voice in your head is not The You.
Empty your mind. When the cup is empty of mental crap, there is space for some nice steaming tea!
A nice cup of team brings great comfort and fulfilmen.
Anyway, these are just mental notes I have put down for myself. I am not trying to impress you or want you to agree with me. This is my belief - as it is, because it makes sense to me, and is verified by my experience. I am on this way, and I am doing super!
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